I guess you would call me a newer blogger I started blogging this year on my other blog and Must Admit I had big Dreams I wanted to be the next top mommy Blogger. I read lots of great Blogs and wanted to be just like some of the top mommy bloggers that are out here today and have became a common name in the blogging world.
Boy did those dreams die Fast! I have to give it to these lady’s though they are on top of their shit but with that they spend Hours on top of hours doing what they do to become this. I have to admit I don’t have that time or determination for blogging like I thought. I am a Mom A busy Mom at that, I am PTO president, on the local school board, team mom, classroom mom and whatever other mom that is needed at my kids school not to mention all the other things that I have going on with my hectic life
I know some of these moms do the same or even more then I do but I can’t compete or balance all that. I would have loved to been able to, but it’s just not going to happen and I have accepted that.
I have decided that I love blogging and I love my readers and friends that I have met in the blogging world so I am going to continue to blog But On my terms and what I want to blog about. I am going to stop focusing On My Page rank, giveaways, reviews and companies reaching out to me that’s another reason I started this new blog. I am starting fresh! I don’t care about all that and sure the hell not going to stress myself out like I seen some other bloggers saying it does to them.
I have read both sides now and I see that it’s not what everyone thinks. These moms deal with a lot of shit especially if they do reviews and giveaways! True they might get paid and get free stuff but IS IT WORTH IT? Hours and hours writing a review for what a free product that most of them would have never even bought or tried the items they are reviewing in the first place if it wasn’t for the PR pitch they received. People seem to think these moms get Lots of free Big high price Items and get paid well , but the truth is those big Items to review are actually very slim and hard to come by and most items are a very small price to pay for the work you have to put in for the review and giveaways.
Some moms love doing giveaways and Product Reviews and Yes I do also But here on out I am not going to agree to do ANY Review for something I am Not Interested in or would ever buy now or later. I am not going to say No PR because I love trying new things and giving my readers my honest Review but it has to be something I want to do and something I feel that my readers would like.
I have also seen The Mom’s that I call the greedy Moms that take all these free products promising the reviews but never writes it or if they do write it I have to ask myself why even waste that time you just spent writing just a few words about a product that I could have went to the company’s website and got the same INFO you put! To Me I think that PR’s need to actually start reading these bloggers post before getting them to do PR for them!
Then they are the Drama Mommy bloggers and I know you have seen it the ones that Love drama and will do anything to start shit with another blogger. This Is another Reason I don’t want to be a BIG Mommy Blogger LOL. I am not the type of person that would take this shit offline so sure the hell not taking it online! I feel that most of the drama comes actually from jealously these blogger want something the other blogger has but don’t know how to get it.
And Last but not least THE FAKE BLOGGERS This Is my biggest issue and you will see it most in the mommy blogs is that they come online and act like their shit don’t stink! Ugh Get over yourself OK you got a great blog I give you that the layout is great the design is perfect you got a great fan base and all of that GOOD FOR YOU! BUT what you leave out all the Real issues you got going on in your life and blog like your life is perfect , the kids are always little angels, your house is always spotless, You have a great husband, you know everything about EVERYTHING POSSIBLE, you think what you say is gold and everyone should follow or do what you say, and you got money out the ass well LET ME SAY GOOD FOR YOU But I want read about the real moms the real issues and not your made up online life! I have always been told people that have to stress what they got either don’t have it or wanting to make themselves look and feel better.
Why the hell do people need to be fake online I have ran across so many fake people online and I still don’t understand why! Online is the only place where I feel that I can be my true self LMAOO I can bitch and cry all I want and not make any one really upset with me!! SO stop being FAKE and be yourself PLEASE!
And on that note I am signing out but please check back on my next Big Hot topic Black mommy bloggers vs White mommy bloggers and where they are in the blogging world