As most of you know I am not really big on Facebook Or MySpace But I am trying to reach more readers and we all know Social networking is the way to go. So I decided to go ahead and least give Facebook another chance.
The Few friends I did make in my short time was many of my blogging friends and let me just say THANK YOU The other small few was either family or people from my past. I am happy to say that I found some great blogs during the day that most likely wouldn’t have found.
For the most part I Just lurked and read peoples page’s and didn’t even bother to add them to my friends list which I observed and found that …
1. Some people never grow up
2. Some feel it’s ok to just settle
3. People love attention even if it’s negative!
4. High school drama even after High school years!
5. People are more FAKE ONLINE then in person!
6. People are looking to hard to find that special person.
7. Still putting all their business out for the world to see.
8. Women think it’s ok to bash men but don’t look at themselves (sorry sometimes the issues is not just the men it’s time we as women step back and look in the mirror)
9. Women complain about what they want out of a man but keep settling and letting the man do whatever he wants …AGAIN IF YOU ARE GOING TO LET YOUR MAN TREAT YOU like that and not stand up he is going to keep doing it! SO IT’s YOUR FAULT!
10. Don’t keep saying what you want or going to do. JUST DO IT THEN COME BACK AND TELL EVERYONE WHAT POSTIVE THING YOU DID! Nobody wants to hear you say 1000 times but you still have never followed thru!
But the most important thing I learned in just the little 24 hours is How blessed I Really am. Sometimes I tend to over look the small things that I take for granted. I am blessed that I don’t have drama, I have a lovely healthy beautiful family, I have my life in order, I have goals, I own my own house and small business ,I have changed over the years in Better ways, I didn’t settle when even though it might have been easier or what was expected.
So with that I still haven’t decided if facebook is for me but I am not going to write it off just yet, But I have decided that I am going to leave high school and friends in the past just that THE PAST with the exception to some that have got their heads on straight and doing them! I am sorry we are 29+ plus years old now and most with kids so If you still don’t know where you’re going in life or even have a plan then I don’t have time for it.
I don’t think I am better than anyone never have but I have to practice what I preach as a mother and surround myself with people that are going to push me to the limit and NOT bring me down!
So my question of the day is… Are you surprised seeing where and what people from your past are doing?
Susieqtpie says
I’m personally glad you jumped over to facebook! We haven’t had a lot of contact but just enough for me to be happy to have a new OLF! As for the past friends I couldn’t agree with you more. The drama is still there. Connecting with the past reminds you why it is your past and not your future. I too feel very blessed with a great family. I’m very content in my life and wish others could be too! Thanks for posting! (susan buetow)
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Vicki says
I am on both sides. One, I like being able to keep up with my close friends daily even if we can’t call one another. But on the other side, I notice that some people will only comment to me if they think they are going to get some gossip from me (like when I posted a status saying I was angry). I am struggling now because having a whole fan page rather than just profile page is confusing the heck out of me. Seems like we don’t have much privacy after we get hooked online, huh?
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